Yes, we have them. We need them. We need things like food, clothing, shelter, sleep, and sex. We are just needy people. What happens when we don’t get at least one our needs met? Like the commercial says, “you are not you when you are hungry”. Some people are even like a hostage taker whoContinue reading “Wants, Needs, and Self-Control”
Category Archives: Abuse
Once Blind
When you are blind you can’t see what is taking place. You could become susceptible to people leading in you in the wrong direction or you might only see what a person wants you to see. All of this can happen until God shows you what is really going on. Yes, He will show youContinue reading “Once Blind”
Understand This
Understand this; everyone won’t understand you. Yes, that situation that you’re in is hard. It is down right devastating. Even though you feel so much pain in your situation, everyone won’t understand. Some will even secretly root for you to lose your mind. Some will laugh and talk about you behind your back. Just becauseContinue reading “Understand This”
Man Up!
You did not get your way, so you had to enforce your anger. She didn’t give you what you wanted, so you coerced her. She felt bad, and you got mad. My, my, my! To keep her in her place, you manipulated, and gaslighted her. You threw a full blown out adult tantrum. She triedContinue reading “Man Up!”
The Toxic Tango
Some people have wanted their relationship to work, so they held on. Some people thought that if only they changed, then everything would work out. Some people thought that the bad thing that happened was a one time occurrence, but then it kept happening again and again. Some people thought that if they give upContinue reading “The Toxic Tango”
They Called Her Crazy
They called her crazy, but was she? She was in a situation where her abuser used manipulation and gaslighting to mess with her mind. She was in a situation where her abuser screamed at her, cussed at her, and was negative towards her. Oh, and he was physically abusive at times as well. Now, doesContinue reading “They Called Her Crazy”
Abuse Is Serious
In relationships, people are being hurt mentally and physically. Abuse in relationships is real. The victim wants to tell someone, but who will believe her? The victim wants to tell someone, but who can she trust? Will that person betray her or think she is crazy and talk behind her back? I pray that peopleContinue reading “Abuse Is Serious”
No, It Can’t Be
No, it can’t be! Well, think again! Anything is possible! Don’t be so blinded by love or caught up in that it can’t happen to me. Just because you don’t know about it or haven’t experienced it, doesn’t mean it won’t or hasn’t happened to you. Sometimes when you are so caught up in aContinue reading “No, It Can’t Be”
Rising Up Anew 